Take that
less
traveled
road…
… and
meet
yourself
in a place
you
never
imagined.
Take that
less
traveled
road…
… and
meet
yourself
in a place
you
never
imagined.
Sometimes
distance…
… gives you
a better
perspective.
There’s always a crowd to celebrate you, put you on a pedastal when you have a title, status, or money.
When you “fall” or “fail”, many people, sometimes even your own family will discard, shun, sweep you under the rug… because you are no longer living for their illusion of you, you are living your own reality for yourself.
Please teach your children and support your loved ones to be happy, whole, healthy individuals… not trophies or projections of your failings and fears.

I believe in fate/destiny, and here is why…
I am finding out, more often, that the universe will place challenges, people, and opportunities to build you towards the life that you want. In order to get those things, go to those places, become that person, there will be a definitive road map.
Just like when we decide on a destination and we enter that into a navigation app for help, even when we get lost or decide on a detour, there will be opportunities and decisions that bring us back or reorients us towards that destination.
Sometimes we are not in tune, and sometimes it’s simply downright denial that causes us to go off course. Nevertheless, when your ultimate fate or destiny becomes clearer, your decisions and actions respond to align.
Some of the people and experiences thus far have been the signs, the turns, the unexpected redirects to refine and define a clearer path for each of us. Some of those moments were painful lessons we can be grateful for because they were the necessary uncomfortable pushes towards the steps that we needed to take, the catalyst to acknowledging deep down the internal compass was freaking out to madly seek out one’s true north, and we were unhappy because the destination we saw for our futures were different than what others saw for us.
And recently the fate of events forced a pivot in step with time.
For me, for now, the course correction lessons for this turn:
* Loving where people are at, and letting them go.
* Honoring fate will create events to pull you towards your destiny.
* The universe will make space for what you want, sometimes in a way that you may not expect.
~ Mayari
I had a wonderful conversation with anime fans. Although I’m versed at a surface level with the characters and their abilities, I was still enthralled with the concept of The Spirit Bomb (or Blast depending on censorship).
The Spirit Bomb is a special attack used by one of the main characters to vanquish a seemingly indestructible opponent in the anime Dragon Ball Z. To make this attack possible, Goku asks to borrow energy from all that exists. It was a beautiful reminder that regardless of how amazingly powerful Goku is, he still has the humility to ask for help because the strength of the attack depends upon how many entities willingly contribute.
Each of us asks for a Spirit Bomb or Blast that we call on from time to time in the face of challenge, when we cannot carry the burden alone. And it is my hope that more and more of us choose to give each other grace when it is asked.